Know Your Worth, Then Add Tax: The Confidence They Don’t Teach You
Knowing your worth is more than a catchy phrase—it’s a mindset shift. It’s the moment you stop shrinking to fit into spaces that were never meant for your full potential. It’s when you realize that being humble doesn’t mean settling for less than you deserve.
For too long, I measured my value by how others saw me—by titles, approval, or how much I could do without breaking a sweat. I equated silence with strength and undervaluing myself with humility. But the truth is, confidence isn’t arrogance. And knowing your worth isn’t selfish—it’s essential.
“Add tax” means standing firm in the value you bring to the table—whether in your career, your relationships, or your time. It means charging what you’re worth, setting boundaries, and saying no without apology. It’s asking for the raise, taking the lead, or walking away when your value isn’t recognized.
This kind of self-worth doesn’t appear overnight. It’s built through experience, mistakes, healing, and growth. It’s reminding yourself every day: I am not asking for too much. I am simply not asking the wrong people anymore.
So, if you’re doubting your value today—pause and take a breath. Then say it with me: I know what I bring. And yes, I’ve added tax.