The Standard is Love, Not Just a Last Name
* Marriage is not the ultimate achievement; a fulfilling, happy life is (single or married)
* If love does not bring peace and respect even in boredom, sickness or health; it is not
love, it is merely a contractual arrangement
* If your standards are deemed too high, there’s nothing wrong with either of you; you’re simply not a good match. And that’s OK, as the world turns
History has made you who you are. Embrace it. Success is yours to define… Unapologetically.
* Waite, L.J., & Gallagher, M. (2000). The Case for Marriage:
Why Married People Are Happier, Healthier, and Better Off
Financially. This book provides a comprehensive look at how
marriage tends to benefit men’s well-being more than women’s,
based on extensive survey data.
* Eggebeen, D., & Knoester, C. (2001). “Marriage and Health:
The Effects of Marital Transitions on Health and Mental
Health.” Journal of Marriage and Family, 63(4), 1172-1186.
This study explores how marital transitions affect health
outcomes differently for men and women.
* General Social Survey (GSS) data has been widely used by researchers to analyze trends in happiness and well-being by
marital status and gender, consistently showing that married men often report higher subjective well-being compared to their single counterparts, while single women sometimes report equal or higher levels of happiness compared to married women.
Living with my uncle and WUM was like attending a neverending seminar called “How to Lose Your Sanity Without Even Trying.” Without boundaries, kindness became a liability, and love morphed into resentment. I learned this the hard way when my cousin—let’s call her Blackguard—stormed into my life like a telemarketer who somehow got my personal number. Think of her as that gum you stepped on in the middle of summer—sticky, annoying, and determined to ruin your day while contributing absolutely nothing of value. She’s like that one rogue shopping cart in a parking lot, perfectly positioned to ding your car while pretending to be innocent. Or better yet, a pebble in your shoe—silent, invisible to others, but constantly there, poking at your peace, violating boundaries like it’s her personal Olympic sport. And as long as she stayed in the shadows, unnoticed by the world, she thrived. But here’s the thing about pebbles in shoes: at some point, you’ve got to take the shoe off and chuck the thing out. So I did. Block.
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